Why are FaceTime dates so popular among modern Christian singles? A video call is a natural transition from messaging your match on Ark Christian Dating App. It’s a great way to connect with a match on a deeper level and decide if you want to continue investing in your connection.
A FaceTime date is also a great option if you match with someone long-distance. This modern technology allows you to continue nurturing your relationship despite the distance. One of the benefits of online Christian dating is that you can expand your dating pool and meet Christians from all over!
Asking for a FaceTime Date
You’ve met your match, and you’re ready to dig deeper. So how do you ask someone to go on a virtual date with you? It doesn’t have to be formal, but make sure to be intentional and respectful when asking for a FaceTime date.
It could be as simple as, “Hey, I’m really glad we connected. I’d love to get to know you better. How would you feel about a FaceTime date this weekend?”. This example communicates your interest and intentions, while leaving space for your match to express their comfort level with a video call.
If the person you matched with is not ready or comfortable for a Facetime date, don’t take it personally. Each individual has their own dating preferences and pace. Remember to be respectful and to not get discouraged. If he or she is not interested in furthering the connection, continue exploring other profiles to find a compatible match.
FaceTime Date Ideas and Tips
You got the green light, hooray! Now what? Start planning your date. Agree on a specific date and time. Make sure to take into account time zones if your date is in a different time zone. It would be a bummer to show up an hour early or a few hours late!
FaceTime dates don’t have to be boring. You can set up a virtual picnic, go on a hike, make it a virtual coffee date, play a game together (did someone say Battleship?). You can emulate an in-person date by incorporating activities or setting the scene. Make sure it’s an environment you feel comfortable in. If you live with roommates or family members, consider finding a more private space where you can connect with your date without interruptions or unwanted interference. You can even FaceTime in your car!
Make sure your FaceTime date is audible. If you’re at a public place or in a busy environment, headphones are a life-saver. Removing distractions will help you connect better with your date.
It’s normal to be nervous, but remember, that you’re worth getting to know! It may take some time to warm up and feel comfortable on your FaceTime date. You can even write down a few questions beforehand in case the conversation lulls. Avoid making the conversation feel like an interview and be sure to share about yourself too. It’s ok if the conversation has pauses here and there. It takes time to get to know someone and build trust to feel comfortable.
What to Wear for a FaceTime Date
When it comes to meeting someone for the first time on FaceTime, what outfit should you wear? It depends on your style and personality. You could wear anything from a flannel to a sundress to your favorite t-shirt. Try to wear something that reflects your personal style. You don’t have to stray out of your comfort zone to try to impress someone.
Looks shouldn’t be the primary focus, and it is important to show up authentically. That being said, whether you choose to show up in a casual outfit or dress to the nines, it’s always nice to show you care enough to make an effort and wear something appropriate. A good rule of thumb is to wear an outfit you’ve worn to church, small group, class, or a family event.
You can try on outfit options for trusted friends and ask for feedback if that’s helpful. It’s a great idea to wear something before your date to make sure you feel comfortable and confident. Have a back-up outfit in case something happens before your call or in case you change your mind last minute.
FaceTime Follow Up
You’ve wrapped up your FaceTime date, and we hope it was a success! To follow up, it’s always nice to send a message letting your date know you appreciated them taking the time to meet with you virtually. If you’re interested in furthering the relationship, communicate with them that you’d like to keep talking and meet again, either via messaging, FaceTime, or in-person if possible.
If it truly doesn’t feel like a good fit, you can unmatch with them on the Ark Dating App. We trust you’ll use your judgment on whether it’s appropriate and considerate to message them before cutting off the match. You can kindly communicate that you’re not interested, which allows the other person to gain closure and continue looking for a better suited match. When communicating, be kind and clear to avoid confusion and respect others’ time and emotional investment.
As a community of Christian singles, Ark Dating App is committed to helping Christians grow in their faith and find faith-based love. We support users on and off the app, ensuring a safe and enjoyable dating experience. If you’re interested in dating differently and connecting with other single Christians, download Ark Dating App and create your profile.